the focused wife!

hello wives!

i’m back!!!!!!! i have been gone for quite some time on somewhat of a forced hiatus and it’s been a learning experience of course…my biggest lesson has been focus!

somewhere along the way i lost my balance and fell off my focus, but through a series of small events and my angels whispering in my ear, i have found my focus again and i am moving forward with promise and purpose.

in these past few months, i have learned so much, but the most important lesson that was made very clear to me was that your passion is your purpose…focus on your passion and you will be staring your purpose right in the face! as far back as i can remember, i have wanted to be a wife…the one he puts on a pedestal, the one where he finds peace and happiness, the one he considers his partner in the game of life…but with that being said, there are many facets to being a wife and many hats that we must wear, so focus and balance are imperative to move through this experience.

as i have engaged other women in conversation, the topic of focus and balance are very common as we put the “s” on our chest and set out to care for all those we come in contact with…and in this, we can easily lose sight of passion and purpose.  so, it is imperative that we maintain balance and maintain a connection to our inner voice that guides us through this life.  so what am i saying…i’m saying that this life is way too short for purpose not to be fulfilled, so slow down, focus and balance your life in a way that will allow your passion and purpose to manifest.

here’s what i know…passion and purpose are very real and we must fight to maintain the balance that is required to manifest that very passion and purpose!

the blessed wife!

hello wives,

i have been in meditation for quite some time…which is why i have not been writing, but i have gained great insight about what i am calling to myself…and this makes me happy beyond belief 🙂

in my time away, so many blessings have crossed my path and for that, i am truly a blessed wife!

by definition blessed means…to make holy, invoke divine favor upon, honored in worship, held in reverance, enjoying happiness, bringing pleasure, contentment or good fortunate…so again i say, i am truly a blessed wife! my prayer is that you can say the same, know it and live it 🙂

i also traveled during my little hiatus and i was reminded how blessed i really am, it’s not that my traveling experience was anything bad, it was actually with family, however, i learned a great deal about myself. i am a wife in every since of the word…i missed my responsibilities of being a wife…making sure my husband is up and out of the door on time, his work shirt ironed, lunch ready, keeping a nice, clean home, walking my dogs, caring for my fish & my plants, grocery shopping, cooking, washing clothes…yes, i learned that i love this list, i was made this way! i never realized how much until i was away. i can truly say that i love making his life…easier, sweeter, organized, comfortable, pleasant, peaceful, happy & yes blessed 😉

i have worked since i was 14 years old and after suddenly being out of work, i was forced to refocus and so i said to myself…”i am going to be the best wife i can be”…”i am going to be the best writer i can be”!…i have created exactly what i said i would!

this is really simple ladies…commit to your marriage with all the passion and love you can imagine and your result will be the same as mine…blessed!

of course, this type of commitment can be focused on anything in your life, but my purpose is to bring us back to pure spirit love…spirit love is the only way to obtain such a blessed life! what is spirit love? i’m glad you asked 🙂 this love is felt from your spirit and can only enhance any situation or relationship…so don’t try and understand it, just allow spirit love to be spirit love 🙂

what am i saying? i’m saying, let’s get out of our own way and be spirit led to a blessed life 🙂

*here’s what i know…if we allow spirit love to rule our existence, we are destined for a blessed and happy life 🙂

the “I AM” wife!

hello wives!

 

in our walk as a wife we must understand and know how our spirit and energy impacts our marriage and environment…I AM the fullness of God! I AM the door and the spirit that walks through it…I AM the thinker and the thought…I AM the lover and the loved…how do we get to this space in our conciousness?? i’m glad you asked 😉 we must operate in it by faith and have patience to allow the manifestation of it…

as a wife, we tend to lose ourselves in our marriage and children…and some would say that this is natural, that this is what we are supposed to do, however, my thought is that if you lose yourself, than you are just that…lost…and how can a lost person help meet your needs or help you find your way??  if we would operate in the fullness of who we truly are, than the energy in our environment would allow for others to do the same.  we often times don’t believe the way we should, we let society, friends and family dictate that for us, and this my friends is where the conflict in our spirit occurs…our spirit knows, but we continue to question what we believe simply because someone else doesn’t believe it to be so.  i often wonder why we choose conflict over resolution??  we are resolution…yet we chose to be conflict and this is true in most areas of our life…our marriage is being taken to a new level of freedom and conciousness, and we are met with the thought pattern that we must operate our marriage like most people, now here comes the conflict instead of resolution of what we already know…we know we should make healthier choices, but instead we chose to cause conflict in our bodies instead of manifesting resolution of what we already know…we wholeheartedly believe in something, but as soon as we share it with someone and their response is not favorable, the conflict immediately starts in our minds and we begin to question the resolution we already know…where is the trust?  where is the knowing?  in a place that we must conciously tap into in order to bring about the manifestations of the heart…your spirit!

 

what am i saying? i’m saying we are fully equipped to manifest it…whatever your it is! 

*here’s what i know…I AM resolution and that definately makes for a happy wife!

 

the understanding wife!

hello wives,

with every day that goes by, i try to understand more of what is and i find myself learning more about who i am…i am understanding that i will forever be learning about myself. i once thought that when you become an adult…that’s who you are, but i am finding out that we are constantly becoming. well, i guess i should say… if we keep our eyes open, we will see the changes in ourselves everyday.

to quote the songwriter india arie…”the only thing constant in the world…is change, so today i take life as it comes”. that is truly saying a lot! understanding that there is and always will be change and then accepting that change. sounds like a fairly simple concept, however, i am understanding that it’s not so simple. everyday that you wake up is different from the day before…and i really want you to hear me on this…everyday is different and change is good! some people don’t like change, they find change to be uncomfortable and inconvenient, an interruption to the life that they have worked so hard to create. it is my opinion that we must embrace change, not just because we know that it is coming, but because we get to understand ourselves a little bit more through change. the way in which we respond to it is crucial to the understanding of it all!

i am currently in a place that is completely foreign to me, however, the understanding of who i am and what my purpose is has never been more familiar. i understand that my purpose here is to simply spread love…through every action that i take, and this is more complex than it appears, because life happens, emotions arise, and ego seldom takes a break, and we as a culture have built so many walls all in the name of “doing me”, that it’s very common for a fellow walker or jogger to do everything in their power to avoid eye contact with you (as if eye contact may spark a real connection between us as people)…i mean really, who needs to connect with the possibility of it changing their agenda? some may consider this to be old-fashioned, but i can’t be the only one that considers this to be a huge disconnect between people. with that being said…i understand my mission and i also understand that i will learn something new everyday…if i choose to 🙂

*here’s what i know…if you keep your eyes open, you will see something new everyday…in the world and in yourself 😉