the womanly wife!

hello wives,

WE ARE WOMEN!!! ok, now that we have that straight, let’s celebrate that!  being a woman is so powerful, but yet some of us don’t recognize our own power…ladies, please use your power for good and not evil 😉

totally embracing our womanness(this just sounds yummy) is not only exciting, but necessary in the process of acceptance…when i say acceptance, i mean accepting our true power, our sexy, our thought process, our place in this world…we are women and in our case, we are married women!  i love being a woman and i love being married!  i am more and more excited about being a woman everyday, i am learning daily how to enjoy being feminine, sweet and sexy!  i love when my husband treats me gentle and handles me with care…it’s sexy and makes me feel happy to be a woman 🙂 as wives, we have to embrace being a womanly wife, we support, uplift, respect, and most of all, we pray for our husbands.  we allow our husbands to lead us, stand in their place in our families and in the world reassuring them that we are a faithful and loyal partners on this journey beside them.

i know we have all heard about “act like a lady , think like a man”…well, i understand the message, however, i want us as women to be clear about how “WE” think.  we can only be women…we are complex, emotional, and sometimes irrational, but we are who we are.  there is no thinking like a man when you’re a woman, it doesn’t suit you…think like a real, grown, sexy, spiritually led woman and you will attract that in a man 🙂  the challenge is waiting, waiting for your moment…but if you wait and move through this experience in all of your yummy womanness, you will reap a harvest so plentiful that was carefully crafted just for you 🙂

what am i saying? i’m saying that there is something so beautifully wonderful and passionately powerful about being a woman, but we must accept this and operate in that for true happiness!

*here’s what i know…being a woman has a quiet power that can change the universe as we know it 🙂

the blissful wife!

hello wives,

i know i said that i was back and it’s been 3 months since my last post, but i have been listening and learning which has caused me to be still, so let me say i’m sorry to those of you that have missed my writing! and to those of you that have not read my blogs yet, please accept what i am offering as my very best heartfelt expression of my passion 🙂

let me start by saying “happy summer solstice”! this is such an exciting time for change and transformation, so i invite you to please take a moment and celebrate the changing of the seasons, the beauty of nature and the abundance of blessings!

i recently started taking yoga and my yoga instructors always start our practice with some type of inspirational quote, and this one really resonates with me at this time in my life…follow your bliss~joseph campbell

what is bliss?  well, i’m glad you asked 🙂  bliss~perfect happiness; great joy; something providing such happiness…what i’ve realized, is this is not that easy to do until you decide that YOUR perfect happiness is most important!  following that thing that brings you great joy is when it’s definitely ok to be a follower 🙂  the lesson is, to allow yourself to seek out this bliss and go after it with a never-ending passion, and the challenge is to ignore the chatter along the way…you know, the chatter that people so freely express when bliss is on the horizon…are you serious about this, it can’t be done…you’re too old to be chasing a dream…you’re too young to know what you want…you’re married, you have to think about your family…

listen! not to me, but to that thing that is calling out to you, that thing that keeps showing up in your dreams, that thing that makes you smile as it runs across your brain…the time is now!  move through this experience with purpose and passion and you will have no more regrets…what are you waiting for?

i have something inside of me that just won’t be quiet and i am paying attention…taking notes…smiling…crying…praying…allowing & enjoying the stretching of my inner self as it pushes me to take on the outer world 😉

*what am i saying?…i’m saying trust your inner self, listen to your inner self and follow your inner journey on the road to bliss…perfect happiness 😉

*here’s what i know…following your bliss will manifest the dreams and desires of your heart!

the blessed wife!

hello wives,

i have been in meditation for quite some time…which is why i have not been writing, but i have gained great insight about what i am calling to myself…and this makes me happy beyond belief 🙂

in my time away, so many blessings have crossed my path and for that, i am truly a blessed wife!

by definition blessed means…to make holy, invoke divine favor upon, honored in worship, held in reverance, enjoying happiness, bringing pleasure, contentment or good fortunate…so again i say, i am truly a blessed wife! my prayer is that you can say the same, know it and live it 🙂

i also traveled during my little hiatus and i was reminded how blessed i really am, it’s not that my traveling experience was anything bad, it was actually with family, however, i learned a great deal about myself. i am a wife in every since of the word…i missed my responsibilities of being a wife…making sure my husband is up and out of the door on time, his work shirt ironed, lunch ready, keeping a nice, clean home, walking my dogs, caring for my fish & my plants, grocery shopping, cooking, washing clothes…yes, i learned that i love this list, i was made this way! i never realized how much until i was away. i can truly say that i love making his life…easier, sweeter, organized, comfortable, pleasant, peaceful, happy & yes blessed 😉

i have worked since i was 14 years old and after suddenly being out of work, i was forced to refocus and so i said to myself…”i am going to be the best wife i can be”…”i am going to be the best writer i can be”!…i have created exactly what i said i would!

this is really simple ladies…commit to your marriage with all the passion and love you can imagine and your result will be the same as mine…blessed!

of course, this type of commitment can be focused on anything in your life, but my purpose is to bring us back to pure spirit love…spirit love is the only way to obtain such a blessed life! what is spirit love? i’m glad you asked 🙂 this love is felt from your spirit and can only enhance any situation or relationship…so don’t try and understand it, just allow spirit love to be spirit love 🙂

what am i saying? i’m saying, let’s get out of our own way and be spirit led to a blessed life 🙂

*here’s what i know…if we allow spirit love to rule our existence, we are destined for a blessed and happy life 🙂

the grateful wife!

hello wives,

i am by definition a grateful wife, which means warmly or deeply appreciative of kindness or benefits received…but i have my moments. 😉 i try to remind myself everyday to be truly grateful…and yet sometimes it doesn’t work. it is in those times that i realize that i am disconnected from the source that is grateful and i must reconnect immediately.

today i was having one of those moments and then i opened an email from my mother that is traveling in france with some friends…i was expecting to read about her many discoveries and all about the great food, however, what i read was heart wrenching. i read a couple of sentences about her experience so far and then my eyes came upon the reason for her email…one of her dear friends had suffered a stroke and was hospitalized. i immediately began to pray and my heart went out to her family that was traveling to france to be with her during this unexpected reality.

i battle with the emotion of being grateful that my mom was typing this email, instead of one of the other mothers typing it to their daughters about my mom. i also struggle with sadness because her family is traveling to such a beautiful place for such a sad occasion, yet i know that if it were my mom, i would not be able to travel to be with her. life is so unexpected…

when we are little and dream about our future, we often leave out the small details of life as we journey toward that dream. i can say that i don’t recall putting feelings of abandonment, low self-esteem, identity crisis, emotional, spiritual, or physical abuse, being flooded out of my city, unemployment, and the struggle to conceive a baby on the list of experiences to have along the way…but i will say this, i’m grateful. and by that i mean, grateful that i survived to understand the triumph after tragedy experience. it is like no other experience…you somehow connect to that source that is inside of you and it instinctively will pull you directly into triumph.

i am presently experiencing life with the understanding that…life is what you create it to be…and i am grateful for it. i have opened up my heart to expect that life will happen…and while it is happening i expect to learn more about my part in this creation.

*here’s what i know…being grateful causes more experiences for you to be grateful 🙂